We’ve been talking about the dangers of being religious. The word “religion” itself is sacred and good (James 1:26), referring to godly and true faith characterized by humility and love for God and others. However, in most circumstances, when referring to the religious, it carries a negative tone, characterizing those who are religious externally but not internally. This external religion is wicked, artificial, and ultimately useless (James 1:26).
The worst nightmare is believing you are a true Christian based on outward religious deeds, only to wake up and find that Jesus does not know you (Matthew 15:8-9; Luke 13:27). The sign of the truly religious is childlike faith. We’ve been going over the signs of external religion by examining the older brother in the parable of the prodigal son.
Characteristics of the Religious
1. They Cannot Value the True Knowledge of Salvation
The religious fail to appreciate the value of salvation in themselves or in others. The elder son’s response to hearing his brother come back safe and sound was to become angry. Instead of being joyful, this son could not appreciate that his brother was rescued and saved.
When a sinner repents, it is the most joyful moment for believers (Luke 15:1-2). We must appreciate how wonderful salvation is. Our salvation is unlike anything else. By common grace, a man can be great, like Caesar or Alexander the Great, but he cannot be saved. Salvation is God’s special, particular gift. It is precious because it overcomes death, for Jesus is the author of life (Acts 3:15). It restores completely, not even leaving any scars behind. There is nothing as valuable and amazing as the salvation of the sinner by God’s grace. The religious fail to understand or experience that.
2. They Lack the Fear of God
The elder son did not fear his father. When the father came out and began pleading with him to join the celebration, the son refused. While the Bible often presents God’s actions descriptively, because God says it, it becomes prescriptive, a command that must be obeyed (Psalm 9:10 example). While the father was asking, because it was his father, it should have been taken as a command.
Instead of fearing and obeying, the religious rebuke and scold the Father, demanding recognition for their works. They think they have credit with God. They present their own merit as the basis of their boldness before God. Their obedience is superficial. When things go against their expectations, they turn their obedience into evidence against God. It is only through the Gospel of Jesus Christ that we can know how to fear God rightly. Jesus loved the Father and feared Him up to His death.
3. They Are Full of Self
The religious are me-centered. Every Christian must practice self-denial, which is not self-hatred, but surrendering our own will to God’s will (Galatians 2:20). The religious son’s words are proof of his self-focus (Luke 15:29). He says, “Look!” or “Behold!”—demanding attention. He continually uses the word “I”. I did this, and I deserve that. If we fail to deny ourselves, we cannot follow Christ properly. This self-focus manifests as self-righteousness and self-serving.
The religious rely on performance: “For so many years I have been serving you and never have I neglected a command of yours”. Self-righteousness goes against God’s grace and relies on works. It denies our need for God, produces pride and contempt toward others (Luke 18:11-12), and blinds the heart (1 Timothy 1:13).
Self-serving means putting self-interest above others. The elder son wanted to celebrate by himself, demanding a goat so he could “celebrate with my friends” without his father. He desired no relationship with his father, and the father’s joy was not his joy.
4. They Lack the Knowledge or Ability to Forgive
The religious desire to be forgiven but not want to forgive others. The elder son holds onto his bitterness and accuses the younger son of his past sins, calling him “this son of yours” and recalling how he “devoured your wealth with prostitutes”.
- The reason they cannot forgive is that they themselves are not forgiven.
- They are legalistic, loving cause and effect, and believe forgiveness is earned, not gifted. They believe there should be consequences for sins and that forgiveness must be earned by good deeds.
- Fail to understand the Father’s love and care. “Child, you are always with me, and all that is mine is yours”. God loves so much that He gave His only begotten Son, Jesus, so that we might be forgiven through faith in Him. (John 3:16) Jesus is our most precious gift from our loving Father.
- God’s forgiveness is the complete removal of sin and guilt through Christ, both legal and relational (John 8:11). It is unearned and unconditional for those in Christ. In Christ alone are we forgiven.
- The forgiven are humble, open to correction, and free from pride (2 Samuel 16:11).
- Forgiveness covers a multitude of sins. Love seeks reconciliation rather than making others’ sins bigger than they need to be. Forgiveness doesn’t mean we condone sin or tolerate sin, but it means we overcome sin.
- Forgiving others is the best way to experience the forgiveness and love of God, allowing us to understand the heart of Christ and the Father.
The religious son is not genuinely born again and therefore has not experienced or tasted the true forgiveness of God. We must seriously examine ourselves daily to ensure we are not living as the religious son, but as true believers who have been transformed internally and convicted in Christ alone.