Jesus has been teaching three major characteristics of kingdom people. Faithfulness in every circumstance, humility to serve men and endure suffering, and lastly, loving your enemies. We will continue to expand on what it is to love your enemies.
“Whoever hits you on the cheek, offer him the other also.” How should we interpret or react to this principle from Jesus? Is it literal? If taken literally, many would react confused or upset. Some take this as Jesus’ command for pacifism, like Gandhi and Martin Luther King Jr did. Even some Christians have taken Jesus’ words to the extreme and refuse to defend themselves or others. This passage is not taken to be as pacifism because God is not a pacifist (Romans 13:4). God allows justice to happen through the government and other legal means. The police should not be pacifists and Christian policemen should most certainly uphold and defend the law.
So this command is not literal and it is not for all circumstances. The point of this passage, based on the context, is love. Love which is beyond reason. You must be willing to endure all sorts of suffering for the sake of love. 1 Corinthians 13:7. In John 18:22-23, Jesus was struck and he explained that what the guard did was illegal. Apostle Paul did the same thing. They did not turn the other cheek but they did show love. Ultimately Jesus prayed for the forgiveness of those who murdered Him (Luke 23:34).
Only Christians possess the living Holy Spirit and can respond like Jesus did (1 Corinthians 2:12-13). Instead of retaliating, the Christian forgives. The Christian realizes that as a sinful and finite creature they are in no position to judge rightly and retaliate properly. Vengeance belongs to God because He is the perfect judge (Romans 12:19). Any vengeance taken by us would be partial and biased. We must leave it to the righteous Judge.
We also turn our cheek because our war is not against flesh and blood but it is spiritual warfare where the Holy Spirit convicts the hearts of our enemies. In Luke 23:48, we see the reaction of the people beating their breasts after seeing the manner in which Jesus died. Just earlier that day they were chanting for His crucifixion and mocking Him. This is how the Christian fights the spiritual war.
Lastly, it says in 1 Corinthians 13:7 love bears all things. The word ‘bears’ means ‘covers’. By love sin can be covered, sin can be extinguished, made powerless, or overcome. A wonderful example: Corrie Ten Boom, a holocaust survivor, met with a former Nazi soldier and instead of denouncing and demanding retribution, she forgave and shared the gospel. This is the love of God that can cover any sin.
As a side note, some people might ask if self-defense is biblical. The short answer is yes but it is case by case and requires wisdom and personal conviction.
Luke 6:29 ‘whoever takes away your coat, do not withhold your shirt from him either.’ Jesus is showing that love is kind. The phrase ‘takes away’ implies a robbery. In ancient times, the coat was very important and there is even a law in the Old Testament that says when you borrow a coat you have to return it before sunset. This is because the coat was used as a blanket to sleep as well. But here, Jesus says to even give the inner garment, the shirt. When you love, you are ready to give and help others sacrificially. This principle continues in Luke 6:30. Love is giving without asking in return. Love helps those who are in need. It doesn’t evaluate whether the recipient deserves help or whether the help is going to be worth it. Simply, love is kind. When we are kind in this way, we are able to look beyond past wrongs, past hurts and past sins and help our enemies. This love is our testimony and witness of the gospel by which we are saved.
Luke 6:31 Treat others the same way you want them to treat you.” The famous Golden Rule. Jesus affirms what God said thousands of years prior (Leviticus 19:18). Other religions and the world have copied or mimicked the golden rule. They also misuse the Golden Rule to further their anti-Bible and anti-Christian agendas. The Golden Rule is not what God calls it rule but has only been named by men. This rule is not above the rest of the Bible and it does not revise or cancel other commands in the Word of God. It is part of what Jesus has been continually explaining as loving your enemies.
How is the believer able to practice the Golden Rule? The first application would be to deny yourself. Those who think about themselves cannot practice love. How can they love others when they want things for themselves. Love begins with a self-denial. Self-denial comes from the gospel of Jesus Christ. The gospel is not just truth but also power (1 Thessalonians 1:5). It is more than information, it is God’s revelation. A Christian does not believe because he has an intellectual understanding of the Bible but because Holy God has revealed Himself to the sinner and by the power of the Holy Spirit they believe and are changed. A true belief in the gospel, true salvation is the key to self-denial. For in the gospel, we see the vileness of our sins and the love and grace of God given to us. We deny ourselves and receive the gift of Christ. Jesus died on the cross and so we too die. Dead to sin and alive to Christ. If we truly experience this in the gospel, then our prayers and songs are full of praise and love.
Loving our enemies is impossible for anyone but the true Christian. That is because it is unreasonable and irrational. It goes against the very sinful nature of men. Yet it is the joy and blessing of one saved by the love of Jesus Christ. We must ask if we truly love as we are called to love. If we are a church without love, then we are dead (Acts 2:47). We love our God, we love one another and we love the lost.