The backdrop of John 14 is the Last Supper, where Jesus is preparing His disciples for His physical departure. The disciples are deeply grieved, disturbed, frightened, anxious, worried, and confused by Jesus’s predictions of betrayal and eventual absence, as they cannot imagine a world without Him.
Jesus offers comforts, urging them, “Do not let your hearts be troubled. Believe in God also believe in me”. He promises to prepare a place for them in heaven and to come back again to take them there. He also states they will perform greater works. Furthermore, Jesus promises to answer their prayers if they are made in His name, to His glory, and to His purpose.
Amidst these promises, verse 15 appears: “If you love me, you will keep my commandments”. This verse serves as the qualifier, defining for whom those promises are given: those who love Jesus and obey His commandments. This relationship is the defining character of a genuine Christian. A true Christian is one who loves and obeys.
Love and obedience are inseparable. Love is the inner motive, and obedience is the outer expression.
Jesus says “If”. This is a first-class conditional particle which assumes the condition is true. If you truly love Jesus, the result (obedience) is assured. The use of “if” describes the natural outcome of authentic faith, rather than expressing doubt or serving as a threat. This is the inseparable connection between love and obedience.
Jesus uses agape for love. There are other types of love, but eros for romantic, philia for friendship, and storge for familial. Agape love is self-sacrificial, selfless, conscious, and empathetic. It is an ongoing, active reality and a continuing state of love. Agape is unconditional love centered on the well-being of the loved one.
Abraham’s willingness to sacrifice his only son, Isaac (Genesis 22:1-2), demonstrates agape love. Abraham revered and loved God so much that he obeyed God’s commandment, even though it was painful and costly. Abraham obeyed before knowing a substitute would be provided, revealing that love for God is relational, not transactional.
The word keep means to watch over, guard, or preserve with careful intentional observance. The grammar indicates an assurance: you will keep (future indicative), which is a prediction of what genuine love for Jesus produces in a believer’s life.
Commandments refers to a direct order or command from an authority, specifically referencing Jesus’s own teachings throughout His ministry. Jesus’s words are not separate from God, but are the Father’s words (John 14:10). God’s word is living, eternal (Matthew 24:35), produces life and spirit (John 6:63), and brings truth (John 17:17) and freedom (John 8:31-32).
Genuine love and obedience must not be confused with the following:
- Not Mere Emotion: Agape is conscientious and intentional. Human emotions are fickle and deceitful (Jeremiah 17:9). Relying on theatrical or emotional church experiences does not produce lasting change; away from the stimulus, these individuals may look no different than non-believers. Instead, the believer must “Delight yourself in the Lord” (Psalm 37:4) so that their desires align with God’s will.
- Not Mere Profession: Faith without works is dead (James 2:14-17); external confessions or good intentions are worthless if not followed by genuine action. Peter spoke big game, promising to die for Jesus, but ran when Jesus was arrested. When Jesus later asked Peter if he loved Him (Agape/Philo), Jesus followed the affirmation with the command to “feed my sheep”, showing that love must manifest in obedience.
- Not Legalism: Legalism emphasizes strict adherence to rules to earn favor (“If I do this, then God will do that”). Many who prophesied or performed miracles were rejected by Christ because they lacked a relationship built on love (“I never knew you”—Matthew 7:21-23). The will of the Father is simply to love Him. Eternal life is about relationship: to know God and Jesus Christ (John 17:33). Beware of practicing your righteousness before men to be noticed (Matthew 6:1); the true test of faith is found in what you do in secret, when no one else is watching.
Agape love is a divine gift that we cannot create ourselves. Our love is responsive, granted because God first loved us, initiating His love even when we were His enemies.
In His absence, Jesus promised the Holy Spirit’s indwelling as Helper and Spirit of Truth (John 14:16-23). If anyone loves Jesus and keeps His commandments, the Triune God (Father, Son, and Holy Spirit) will make their abode in them. The Holy Spirit awakens our dead spirit and enables us to obey his commandments. After Pentecost, the Holy Spirit empowered Peter and the disciples with boldness and fervor to obey God rather than men, even when jailed or threatened.
The true demonstration of faith rests on the relationship between agape love and obedience. Jesus died for your entire life, meaning your previous life is forfeit, replaced by a new life granted through the Holy Spirit. Because the Triune God makes an abode in you, you are able to love God fully and completely. The transformative power of the Holy Spirit dwells within you. Do not limit God by believing that genuine obedience is “not possible in my life,” or only for “more faithful men,” because God is the same yesterday, today, and tomorrow. If you find yourself operating in a legalistic, emotional, or transactional manner instead of genuine, selfless love, the command is to repent and ask the Lord to grant you the love that enables you to obey His commandments.